What does it mean that we are all one? Where does the ego fit into all this? Does it mean that I have to loose my identity of who I think I am? These questions have been revolving through my mind and my heart for several years. I don't claim to have a real answer but just more questions to ponder.
Although the more movement I have made from my mind to my heart the more I feel some satisfaction, some sense of peace. Somewhere I have heard that the greatest distance on the universe is the distance between our mind and our heart. Maybe so, I know that it sometimes feels that way. It could be that I am discovering that in all reality it may be the shortest distance, too. It could be that is both and at the same time neither.
I remember that when I was running the men's group for the local women's battered home, the men would often claim that the reason they hit their wives/partners is because they made them do it. I saw it as part of their treatment that they begin to have an awareness of taking ownership and responsibility for their own actions. I tried several tactics including using the manual that was provided to begin to crack open the seed in their heads in order for them to receive some insights into their behavior. One of the tactics was to use their reason and their tendency for self-cherishing for the benefit of all. We as a group began to realize that we were unconsciously giving our power away to someone else by blaming others for our own behavior.